How to feel more connected this festive season

By Beatrice Thomas

If you’ve ever felt lonely or stressed at the end of the year, you’re not alone. CCIWA member Medibank offers advice on how to feel connected this festive season. 

For many Australians, the festive season can be a stressful and lonely time. In fact, one in four Australian adults report experiencing loneliness.

While loneliness can affect anyone at any time, some factors like stress, fatigue and social isolation caused by the COVID-19 pandemic may put you at a higher risk of being affected. 

For those that have lost loved ones, grief may also be more intense during the holiday period. 

That said, there are ways to reduce loneliness and feel more connected during the festive season. 

Coping with stress 

The festive season can be stressful. The best way to keep your stress levels in check is to put everything into perspective. According to mental health professionals the best way to manage stress is to think about how you want to spend your time, decide what the holidays mean to you, and keep your expectations realistic. 

While the easing of social distancing restrictions has many of us knocking on the doors of our friends and loved ones, for some people, adjusting to elements of ‘normal’ life again may take a bit more time. If you don’t feel ready to take on the world yet, remember it’s OK to take things slowly. 

Eating well 

A lot of people overindulge during the holidays, which includes overspending, overeating and overcommitting. Yes, you can have a healthy festive season. Food swapping over the festive season can help maintain gut health and may help you feel better mentally – so say no to the cheese and crackers and opt for veggie sticks or pita bread instead. Reduce your alcohol consumption to help manage anxiety levels or book in some time for you rather than attending every festive event. Remember: learning to say ‘no’ is a gift to yourself. 

The importance of self-care 

The Salvation Army share tips on how to feel more connected during the festive season: 

  • Ask and accept help for tasks including food and gift shopping. 
  • Connect with loved ones that are important to you. 
  • Volunteer for a local charity or community group. 
  • Make time for exercise. 
  • Schedule time for yourself away from the celebrations: go to the movies, get a massage or go on a little staycation and explore your hometown. Treat yourself. 
Looking after others 

Random acts of kindness go a long way during the festive season. Connect with people who do not have family or friends around for the holidays. Send a card, a small gift, bake festive treats or call someone who may be spending the season alone. Volunteering is a great way to help others and may help reduce feelings of stress, loneliness and social isolation. Talk with your neighbours about their holiday plans; you never know who may appreciate a little company. 

If you’re connected to the internet, social media is a great way to stay connected with family and friends who live far away. Start a festive group chat to share your thoughts, photos and videos. 

Reach out for support 

If you experience feelings of social isolation and loneliness, speak to your GP or mental health professional. 

If you’re a member with hospital cover, you can call the Medibank Mental Health Phone Service on 1800 644 325, 24 hours a day, seven days per week to speak to a mental health professional. 

If you feel that you or a loved one might need some extra support to manage your health and wellbeing during the festive season, you can also contact Lifeline or Beyond Blue.


As a CCIWA Member, your organisation and employees are eligible to access Medibank corporate health cover at a discounted rate. If you are interested to find out more email

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